Gaining

It is his body, and he needs to be comfortable in his skin. If he wants to lose it, you should support him in that.
That being said, it doesn't hurt to make sure he knows that you love him and his body, as he is right now. Even if he decides to lose it, it'll probably help him feel less awful in the meantime.

I mean she love's her Boy friend and she is turned on by his over eating and gaining.....is that such a bad thing. She shouldn't be scolded for her feeling's or opening up on this board.